| Friday 8 August 2008 |
| 我的爱情观 |
心目中的一段感情。。。
我需要空间，我希望两人再怎么缠绵，也总有自己的小空间。
当我回到自己的房间，我只想静静的做我平时做的事，例如收拾，打电脑，做功课。
我不想为他改变自己，到后来我会渐渐失去自己。我不想你为我而改变，我会慢慢的接受你的一切。
我想他默默支持我，我并没有崇高的理想或抱负，我只是想认真完成自己的事情。
例如 ；认真的求学，希望未来的路好走一些。
虽然这并不能成对比，但是这的确是我现阶段的想法。
我希望两个人的脚步是一致，当我想为生活冲刺时，我非常渴望他能与我并肩。
当我想停下来休息时，我又很渴望他能留在我身边让我依靠。
我很希望对方给予我信任，那么我就不必担心自己无心的言语或健忘或一时冲动的行为，伤害到他。
在这么频繁的社会，我能和他相识到相爱已经是我最大的幸福。我真的希望他会明白他在我心中的地位。
不想因为发生不顺心的事时，就把之前两人辛辛苦苦建立的感情割破，在不理智的情况下互相对骂。
我无法分分秒秒待在他身边，但是我从来没有把他遗忘。你明白吗?
你无法分分秒秒待在我身边，但是你的短讯或一通电话已足够了。
用心来感觉大家心目中的对方，不会比较谁付出的比较多。
我希望和他在一起时很放心，很有安全感。
就算我不说话也并不代表我心情不好。
我是属於想把心事说出来时，才告诉他的人。而不是当他叫我说时，我就要立即说出来。
他一定是个孝顺，心地好，不计较，力求上进，以及懂得照顾自己的人。
他一定要比我聪明，因为本人实在太迟钝。
当我选了他，我就不会轻易放手。除非，离开对对方会比较快乐。。
这篇文章或许会反映出我的自私。你的想法我控制不了，我只是说出我的想法，你有权利反对。 |
posted by yinshuang吟双 @ 5:46:00 p.m.  |
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no one leave comments on your blog de.. here i come make a bit of noise
everyone has a selfish side no matter how desperate that somebody try to stress of not being selfish, he or she must accept that while no matter how he or she has a selfish side, so even you think you 're being selfish now, do not feel sorry for it, but feel positive for yourself, for daring to be true to yourself!
but what you 've written there seem like perfectionist view, than selfish person view.. i know you do understand nothing will 100% suit our demands because not even we can be 100% of what we really do want, thats why imperfection do exist here. i also know that you just expressing what you think how you feel here only, so its good that you found your way to express yourself. rock on!
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no one leave comments on your blog de.. here i come make a bit of noise
everyone has a selfish side no matter how desperate that somebody try to stress of not being selfish, he or she must accept that while no matter how he or she has a selfish side, so even you think you 're being selfish now, do not feel sorry for it, but feel positive for yourself, for daring to be true to yourself!
but what you 've written there seem like perfectionist view, than selfish person view.. i know you do understand nothing will 100% suit our demands because not even we can be 100% of what we really do want, thats why imperfection do exist here. i also know that you just expressing what you think how you feel here only, so its good that you found your way to express yourself. rock on!
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两个人相处真的很靠技巧，看过这么一句，love is not how strong you feel at the first start, but is the matter love strong you build the relationship.
加油双双～！！
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gambate...
i dono wut cn say..jz cn support u all the ways..:)
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Hm? How come I didn't sense any selfiness in your words....only your sincerity..
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no one leave comments on your blog de.. here i come make a bit of noise
everyone has a selfish side no matter how desperate that somebody try to stress of not being selfish, he or she must accept that while no matter how he or she has a selfish side, so even you think you 're being selfish now, do not feel sorry for it, but feel positive for yourself, for daring to be true to yourself!
but what you 've written there seem like perfectionist view, than selfish person view.. i know you do understand nothing will 100% suit our demands because not even we can be 100% of what we really do want, thats why imperfection do exist here. i also know that you just expressing what you think how you feel here only, so its good that you found your way to express yourself. rock on!